One of the great gifts we receive living here is the exposure to a different way of life that challenges our own thinking and actions. Without all the holiday functions and gatherings with family and friends, we’re left with the question of “what does Christmas really mean to us.”
During these times of anticipated joy and celebration, death is not a topic I typically want to bring up, but it has touched our lives several times just in the past week. Sunday, our daytime guard, lost his mother Saturday evening. We dropped all we were doing and quickly found ourselves involved in the burial preparations. Rick spent most of the following day helping transport things needed for the burial - members of the family, water and cooking pots, food, wood for burning, and the coffin. Funerals are largely attended, often lasting many days and requiring a lot of resources, both monetary and physical, making it even harder on the grieving family. It was a blessing to be able to support Sunday and his family during such a difficult time, and even more so, to see the community coming together around him and his family. The role of solidarity in the African community is a strong one. They willingly choose interdependence over independence, and in such occasions like funerals and weddings, everyone has a role to play.
As I sit and think, I’m reminded of the way Christ entered into our world, leaving heaven and participating fully in the sufferings of humanity -- just as our African friends join with one another during times of trouble and times of celebration. Their gift is one of friendship, of understanding, and even when understanding does not come, of simple presence. God does the same thing for me, and the question of Christmas’ meaning is answered a little more simply this year: Christ really did come and His presence is here with us today.
Wishing you all a blessed holiday season,
Faye & Rick
2 comments:
What a steward you are for Christ Rick! I keep seeing pictures of you helping out and always with a big smile. Even though you are far from friends in Portland I know that your family in Africa depends on you and you are thought of and prayed for often here in Portland. you too Faye!
Hi Rick and Faye--I'm in awe of your heroic and compassionate work. Rick, my mom and your mom communicated through email about all the work you and Faye are accomplishing. I just think it's wonderful. Your commentary and pictures are amazing. Both of you are truly living proof of God's good deeds. We are praying for your safety, health, and good work. Love, Katie Zboril (Butler)
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