Wednesday, November 28, 2007

A house of friends...

Monday through Saturday, our home is full of people. Some are guests and some are our hired help – Jacqueline, Esther, Sunday and Pale (pronounced Pah-ley). At first it seemed odd to Rick and me that we would have people here to cook food, clean the house, care for the grounds, and guard the gate – things that we could do for ourselves or do without. We’ve quickly learned that having these wonderful people here not only provides a steady income for their families, but also gives us an opportunity to grow in relationship. The majority of the Ma’di language and culture we’ve learned thus far is thanks to afternoons under the tree with Sunday, cooking in the kitchen with Jacqueline, and washing clothes alongside Esther. We see less of Pale and hear more of him, as he’s our night guard who also begins cleaning the grounds around 6:00 am while it's still dark, and most importantly, cool outside. His favorite radio placement seems to be under our window.

I’m really enjoying our new friends and laughing alongside them, when in reality I think they’re mostly laughing because of how funny we sound when speaking Ma'di. Earlier this week, Rick and I walked Jacqueline home and were served coca-cola in her tukal – a real treat! Hospitality is very important in the African culture and I’m continuously humbled by people’s generosity toward us. Yesterday Esther, Jacqueline, Rick and myself went to Esther’s garden to gather sweet potatoes and greens for our meal today. We took a dirt path that quickly dissolved as we cut across several fields of groundnuts (peanuts), sorghum, maize, and other crops before reaching her plot. For an outsider, it's difficult to see where one garden begins and the other ends. We learned to dig where the cracks in the dirt are largest, using sticks and our hands to carve out the potatoes. Rick was successful in finding one, and the ladies helped fill the rest of the bag. I’m sure we’ll continue to share stories about these people, as they make a huge difference in our daily lives. They bring us much joy and laughter and are one of the best things about living in Adjumani.

Click here for pictures of our Thanksgiving celebration and our digging adventures in Esther's field.

5 comments:

Sara said...

Hello my friends! :) I am finally reading your blog and I am loving it! I especially love the pictures of you interacting with the culture there. I tried to comment before, but i think it turned into an email, so I am leaving a comment anyway. I am staying home from HC tonight to rest my body that is fighting to resist a cold. But I am looking forward to seeing many of our friends this friday at the "N house" for a pajama party! Love you both and will email you now.

Unknown said...

Hello from L.O! hope you two are well. it looks like you had a great Thanksgiving. Dont worry you two, the ski season is starting off slow. we were watching the amazing race and they were in Africa. it seems like an amazing place. how's the food? all is well for us up here. getting ready for Christmas. You are in our prayers. -Josh and Tiff Welch

Dustin and Katie said...

Faye you are so beautiful! This is a fun story. How crazy that they go pick their own food for the day. I'm too lazy to drive to Fred Meyer on some days! I so enjoy reading your blog and hearing about what's going on on the other side of the earth. The rain has officially started here in Portland. .do you miss it or are you loving soaking up those rays? -Katie

allison said...

Great pics! The smiles on your faces in the field say it all. What beautiful new friends you've made! We're jealous! :) Love to you guys.
~ The Carters

Anonymous said...

your pictures made me cry, but in good way. for one of the first times since i've been home i felt a deep longing to be with you all again in adjumani. processing through m trip ha been a journey itself, but it is so good to see all your faces and smiles. i miss you all so much. give my greetings to esther, jacqueline, pale, and of course sunday.